4 Key Requirements to Becoming A Surrogate

The thought of caring for the unborn child of Intended Parents can be an overwhelming. While there may not be such a thing as “the perfect surrogate”, narrowing down the traits to those that are absolutely necessary is a good place to start. Golden State Surrogacy believes these four  reasons will guide a surrogate carrier through the best journey possible.

Health. 
Your physical and mental health is by far the most important quality! Being generally healthy and relatively fit is a good place to start, as pregnancy will put a great deal of stress on the body. It will be established early on in the process that you are physically, mentally healthy, and without prior pregnancy complications. You should also already be living a healthy lifestyle, including being smoke and drug free, physically active, and eating a healthy diet.

Responsible.
 You know that taking on the role of a gestational surrogate is a huge responsibility! Becoming pregnant through surrogacy is a complicated and intricate process, and demands that strict guidelines and procedures are taken seriously. You should also show responsibility in the general way you live your daily life. Thoughtfulness and consideration are key.

Communicative.
 Communication is key to a healthy surrogate/intended parent relationship. Early on in the relationship, both parties should establish their personal expectations regarding communication. Communication will involve updates about medical appointments and procedures. Being that this is an intimate process, many surrogates and IPs become close, talking and texting and face timing regularly. Whatever your unique relationship ends up being, communication that everyone is comfortable with is vital. You will also communicate with your agency representative and all doctors involved frequently.

Support System.
 You will have an important job, but it is never one you are doing alone. It is important that you are surrounded by people who can support you throughout the entire pregnancy. Because having had at least one pregnancy previously is a requirement for surrogacy, you will likely have young children to take care of. It is important that there is a backup plan, be it a supportive partner, family, or friends.

We are here to help support your through your surrogacy journey!!! We look forward to helping you help create families!