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Intended Parents finding their "Match"

2/24/2020

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.....To our future Intended Parents…

You’ve made some huge decisions – you want to be a parent, you’ve contracted with an Agency, met doctors, learned the IVF process, and made arrangements for travel. Now it’s time to match with your surrogate carrier.

Meeting with your Surrogacy Journeys representative will help you prepare for your match meeting with a potential surrogate. This is your opportunity to craft your personal profile. You will be asked about your family and the family you’re hoping to create, as well as questions about potential medical issues and legal preferences. These are questions you’ll want to review before your meeting, and it’s important to have an honest discussion with your partner and agency representative. The clearer you can be before your match is made, the easier and quicker your journey will be.

Another aspect of preparing for your surrogate match meeting is considering the qualities of your preferred surrogate match. You’ll be in each other’s lives for at least a year! We encourage you to think about psychological aspects, legal considerations, values and personal preferences. Your agency representative will offer suggestions about which items should be non-negotiable and which may require more flexibility. Doing this work will help you prepare the appropriate questions for your surrogate.

Potential questions the surrogate could ask will likely be similar to yours. She’ll want to know about you and perhaps why you are choosing surrogacy to build your family. She may ask about your expectations of her, and your hopes for communication during the process.

You’ve probably noticed that communication is a common theme in a surrogacy match. Knowing that our process takes this into account will make your match meeting as straightforward as possible.

Communication will lay the foundation for shared expectations. You have the option to decide the frequency and type of communication that you prefer. Every match is different, and our goal is to respect and uphold these individual needs.You and your surrogate will have a whole team of people who are here answer questions and offer support and guidance every step of the way.
 

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IVF - The Basics

1/14/2020

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In vitro fertilization (IVF) is a medical procedure and one of the most innovative fertility treatments in practice today. If you are facing fertility challenges on your journey to create a family, IVF may be your key to overcoming them. Infertility struggles are probably more common than you think. If you are in need of help, you are most definitely not alone. Golden State Surrogacy partners with innovative, highly successful doctors and clinics who guide parents to be throughout the entire process. We enjoy educating our patients and the public about the realities of IVF. We explain the basics of in vitro fertilization below with a step-by-step walkthrough of the IVF process to all of our clients and surrogate carriers.

The IVF Process

IVF is a complex medical procedure that should only be performed by the most experienced fertility health professionals. The IVF cycle does not seem so overwhelming to fertility patients when it is broken down into its distinct parts. Your fertility treatment will begin with visits to our doctor and clinic partners. You’ll receive lots of information and begin the required medical and psychological exams.

Once you have taken care of these initial meetings and you have made your final decision to go forward, IVF pretreatment preparation can begin. During this time, you will undergo comprehensive lab work in order to provide your IVF specialists with a complete understanding of your health. This typically involves a blood panel, several ultrasounds, a uterine health evaluation, and tests for infectious disease. Male fertility tests will also be conducted to ascertain the health of the donor sperm.

After all medical screening has been completed, you are ready to begin your IVF cycle. There five primary steps in the modern in vitro fertilization process, the bulk of which occur in about 3 weeks.

Ovary Stimulation

After pretreatment has taken place, the IVF patient will take multiple injections to stimulate the ovary in order to mature multiple eggs at the same time. Typically, the patient will take injectable hormone for 8-11 days, injecting herself daily until her eggs mature.

Egg Retrieval and Sperm Retrieval

Egg retrieval is a minor surgical procedurethat occurs under anesthesia once the eggs have reached maturity. There is very little risk associated with the egg retrieval process, but the patient should clear their schedule for the day and make arrangements with a partner or friend for the drive home. The entire process takes about 20 minutes. Eggs are retrieved using an ultra-thin needle to extract the follicular fluid through the vaginal wall, which is then examined by an embryologist to find the mature eggs. If you are undergoing IVF with a partner, their semen sample will typically be collected on this day as well.

Fertilization

The eggs and semensample are combined in a laboratory for natural fertilization. This usually takes place in a small medical dish with the aid of a nutrient fluid, which is then incubated overnight. IIntracytoplasmic sperm injection (ICSI) may be used if the health of the sperm is suboptimal. In this process, one single healthy donor sperm is injected directly into the egg with a sharp glass needle.

Embryo Transfer


Once fertilization has been confirmed, the embryos are transferred directly into the patient’s uterus. This is done through an opening in the cervix into the uterus with the aid of a catheter. This typically occurs about 3 days after fertilization, and the number of embryos transferred is based on how many were successfully fertilized. Surgery is not needed, but there may be some discomfort following the procedure.

Confirming IVF Implantation and Pregnancy

After the transfer, two follow-up tests are scheduled in order to confirm implantation. The first test usually takes place within a few weeks after embryo transfer, and the second will occur one week after that. Once implantation is confirmed with two positive tests, the in vitro fertilization process is complete.

If you are interested in exploring your options for starting a family via IVF treatment with a surrogate carrier, please contact the experts at Golden State Surrogacy today.

 

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Fun Christmas Celebrations Around the World

12/13/2019

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Christmas trees and lights, singing carols, decorations, gifts, and lots of holiday cheer – we’re very familiar with the most loved Christmas traditions in the US. Here are a few fun annual winter traditions in other countries!

Giant Lantern Festival, the Philippines
The Giant Lantern Festival is held each year on the Saturday before Christmas Eve in the city of San Fernando – the Christmas Capital of the Philippines. The festival attracts spectators from all over the country and across the globe. Eleven barangays (villages) take part in the festival and competition is fierce as everyone pitches in trying to build the most elaborate lantern. Originally, the lanterns were simple creations around half a meter in diameter, made from ‘papel de hapon’ (Japanese origami paper) and lit by candle. Today, the lanterns are made from a variety of materials and have grown to around six meters in size. They are illuminated by electric bulbs that sparkle in a kaleidoscope of patterns.


Gävle Goat, Sweden
Since 1966, a 13-metre-tall Yule Goat has been built in the center of Gävles Castle Square for the Advent, but this Swedish Christmas tradition has unwittingly led to another “tradition” of sorts – people trying to burn it down. Since 1966 the Goat has been successfully burned down 29 times – the most recent destruction was in 2016.
If you want to see how the Goat fares this year when it goes up on December 1st, you can follow its progress on the Visit Gävle website through a live video stream.


Kentucky Fried Christmas Dinner, Japan
Christmas has never been a big deal in Japan. Aside from a few small, secular traditions such as gift-giving and light displays, Christmas remains largely a novelty in the country. However, a new, quirky “tradition” has emerged in recent years – a Christmas Day feast of the Colonel’s very own Kentucky Fried Chicken.
The festive menu will soon be advertised on the KFC Japanwebsite and, even if you don’t understand Japanese, the pictures sure will look delicious with everything from a Christmas-themed standard bucket to a premium roast-bird feast.


Hidden Brooms, Norway
Perhaps one of the most unorthodox Christmas Eve traditions can be found in Norway, where people hide their brooms. It’s a tradition that dates back centuries to when people believed that witches and evil spirits came out on Christmas Eve looking for brooms to ride on. To this day, many people still hide their brooms in the safest place in the house to stop them from being stolen.


Roller Skating, Venezuela
Love Christmas, but think it could be improved by a spot of roller-blading? If the answer is yes, visit Caracas, Venezuela this year. Every Christmas Eve, the city’s residents head to church in the early morning – so far, so normal – but, for reasons known only to them, they do so on roller skates. This unique tradition is so popular that roads across the city are closed to cars so that people can skate to church in safety, before heading home for the less-than-traditional Christmas dinner of tamales.


Cavalcade of Lights, Toronto
In wintry, wonderful Toronto the annual Cavalcade of Lights marks the official start to the holiday season. The first Cavalcade took place in 1967 to show off Toronto’s newly constructed City Hall and Nathan Phillips Square. The Square and Christmas tree are illuminated by more than 300,000 energy-efficient LED lights that shine from dusk until 11 pm until the New Year.
 
Want to see a few more? Visit https://www.momondo.com/discover/article/christmas-traditions-around-the-world


From our families at Golden State Surrogacy, we wish everyone a memorable holiday season and a beautiful New Year!

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4 Key Requirements to Becoming A Surrogate

11/26/2019

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The thought of caring for the unborn child of Intended Parents can be an overwhelming. While there may not be such a thing as “the perfect surrogate”, narrowing down the traits to those that are absolutely necessary is a good place to start. Golden State Surrogacy believes these four  reasons will guide a surrogate carrier through the best journey possible.

Health. 
Your physical and mental health is by far the most important quality! Being generally healthy and relatively fit is a good place to start, as pregnancy will put a great deal of stress on the body. It will be established early on in the process that you are physically, mentally healthy, and without prior pregnancy complications. You should also already be living a healthy lifestyle, including being smoke and drug free, physically active, and eating a healthy diet.

Responsible.
 You know that taking on the role of a gestational surrogate is a huge responsibility! Becoming pregnant through surrogacy is a complicated and intricate process, and demands that strict guidelines and procedures are taken seriously. You should also show responsibility in the general way you live your daily life. Thoughtfulness and consideration are key.

Communicative.
 Communication is key to a healthy surrogate/intended parent relationship. Early on in the relationship, both parties should establish their personal expectations regarding communication. Communication will involve updates about medical appointments and procedures. Being that this is an intimate process, many surrogates and IPs become close, talking and texting and face timing regularly. Whatever your unique relationship ends up being, communication that everyone is comfortable with is vital. You will also communicate with your agency representative and all doctors involved frequently.

Support System.
 You will have an important job, but it is never one you are doing alone. It is important that you are surrounded by people who can support you throughout the entire pregnancy. Because having had at least one pregnancy previously is a requirement for surrogacy, you will likely have young children to take care of. It is important that there is a backup plan, be it a supportive partner, family, or friends.

We are here to help support your through your surrogacy journey!!! We look forward to helping you help create families!

 

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How does an embryo transfer work?

10/28/2019

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Embryo transfer is a simple procedure that follows in vitro fertilization (IVF) and is often considered the simplest step of the IVF process. After the egg is fertilized and has reached the stage where transfer is recommended by the doctor, the surrogate visits the clinic to have the embryos transferred. Anesthesia is often not necessary, although a sedative may be used. An ultrasound may be used to help guide the doctor as he or she transfers the embryos. A predetermined number of embryos are loaded into a fine transfer catheter and are deposited into the uterus.
 
Following this procedure, the surrogate usually remains in a recovery room resting on her back and is discharged within an hour after the procedure. The surrogate and intended parents will then wait and optimistically watch for early pregnancy symptoms.
 
When you go through an embryo transfer you'll probably hear this saying over and over: “Think sticky thoughts.” The hope is that thinking sticky thoughts will make the embryo “stick” in the uterus and grow. Some Intended Parents give gifts during this time that are sticky or represent something sticky for the surrogate to enjoy afterwards.
 
What happens after the transfer? Some doctors encourage the surrogate to rest for twenty-four to forty- eight hours. Others suggest returning to normal activities as soon as possible. Some surrogates choose to rest because they think that by doing so they are improving their chances. Additional rest also gives them an opportunity to think about the potential baby. Other surrogates decide to return to normal activities to help them avoid worrying that something could go wrong. Along with instructions from the doctor, the state of the surrogate’s body and mind should help her decide her course of action.
 
Ten days later the surrogate carrier will return to the IVF clinic for blood work to determine if she is confirmed pregnant! It is truly pure joy for all parties involved. Surrogates have the opportunity to surprise their Intended Parents with an ultrasound picture and congratulate them.
 
 
 

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Pampering our Surrogates!

10/1/2019

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Everyone deserves a little pampering – especially during pregnancy!  Here are some ideas to care for yourself while you’re caring for the unborn baby. As always, check with your doctor before you begin any new programs!

Golden State Surrogacy provides our surrogates with monthly compensation for the following…

Prenatal yoga
 It is an excellent way to relax and stay fit while pregnant. Yoga encourages stretching, mental centering and focused breathing. Research suggests that prenatal yoga is safe and can have many benefits for pregnant women and unborn babies. Prenatal yoga can help improve sleep, reduce stress, increase the strength and flexibility of muscles needed for childbirth, and decrease lower back pain, nausea and headaches.

Acupuncture
Pregnant women love acupuncture, and if you haven’t experience it... You’re in for a real treat! Acupuncture is a healing art that originated in China thousands of years ago. Traditional Chinese medicine views the body as two opposing forces, yin and yang. When an imbalance occurs between the two, it blocks the flow of vital energy along internal pathways, called meridians, in the body. During acupuncture, a practitioner inserts hair-thin needles through the skin at points along the meridians to correct imbalances and restore health. Research has found that acupuncture points correspond to deep-seated nerves, so that when the needles are twirled, the nerves are activated. This triggers the release of endorphins, which block pain signals and may help to relieve a number of pregnancy symptoms, including morning sickness and sleeping problems!

Pregnancy massages
Finding a way to soothe the body and relax the mind? Having a massage, either as a one-off or regularly, helps to improve circulation and disperse the tension building up in back and leg muscles – the perfect bit of pregnancy pampering for aches and pains. Find a spa that specializes in prenatal therapies and talk through your needs with the massage therapist. And relax!
 

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Explaining surrogacy to your children

9/16/2019

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If you’re a surrogate, or in the process of becoming a surrogate, or simply just wondering… How in the world do surrogates explain the pregnancy to their children? Well, most know that surrogacy agencies require a surrogate to have birthed one or two children of her own before becoming a surrogate for someone else. There are a number of reasons for this requirement. First and for most, having had previous experience with a pregnancy helps you know what to expect from your body and how to handle any challenges that may come along. In addition, the fact that you already have had a successful pregnancy makes it more likely that you will have a successful pregnancy with the baby you are carrying for the intended parents. We require a medical screening of all our surrogates because they are accepted into our program.

As a gestational surrogate, you may face the dilemma of what to tell your children about the baby growing inside you! It can be confusing for little ones to understand a complex concept like surrogacy, but if you keep it simple and stick with the basics, your children should come to understand all that they need to about your pregnancy. Here are some ideas for explaining surrogacy to your kids.

For younger children
When you explain surrogacy to a toddler or preschooler, keep the words a simple as possible. You could tell it in the form of a story. “Once upon a time, there were two people who wanted very much to have a little baby of their own. They wanted to have a child, but they couldn’t. So your mommy decided to carry their baby in her tummy for them for a while. When the baby is big enough to come out into the world, it will go and live with this very special family, and they will be so happy!” There is several wonderful picture books out there to read to your little ones.

For older children
If you have a couple of older kids, you face a new set of challenges explaining the pregnancy. Your oldest child has seen you pregnant before. The last time, that pregnancy resulted in a sibling. You’ll need to explain very clearly that the baby is for a different set of parents.  Your child may be concerned that you are giving away a brother or sister, simply because you don’t want to keep it; so you need to clarify that this is not a baby made by you and that you are simply just a kangaroo pouch, but this is a  very special baby made for  another family. Explain that the other mom’s tummy could not grow the baby, so you offered to give them a very special gift and grow their baby for them until it is ready to enter the world and join their family.
An older child may be able to understand terms like “incubator” or “oven,” images that help them grasp the concept of surrogacy and its temporary nature. You can also refer to yourself as the “extended babysitter” for the intended parents. Introduce your children to the Intended Parents; this will help them understand who the baby actually belongs too.

Reassurance and Love
No matter what your child’s age may be, he or she may develop a fear of being given away someday, as you plan to give the intended parents’ baby to them. When you explain surrogacy the first time, and at other times in the future, express your deep love and commitment to your children. Let them know that you planned for them, wished for them, and will keep them forever. Often time’s children get very excited for the Intended Parents. They see the bond their mommy has with the Intended Parents and how excited they are to meet their baby!

Golden State Surrogacy CEO, Shannon’s personal surrogacy journeys.
At the time my son was only five years old and my daughter was just turning two. They didn’t really understand surrogacy at all, but why would they?  My son knew I was having a baby for a great friend because her belly didn’t work like mine. I introduced my children to the families I carried for. We would often get together for lunch, celebrate holidays together, or simply send pictures back and forth to each other. My kids knew the Intended Parents as friends and once the baby came they were just happy to have me back home. Our daily routine never changed too much, and once the babies were healthy enough to meet my children, they did! Today I am lucky to say that my children love seeing pictures of our “surro babies” and know that they are just like any other child who is loved!
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Egg Donation & telling your children

9/6/2019

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Egg Donation Story Books

DO YOU KNOW—Most Common Concerns Intended Parents Have about Donor Conception Millions of people dream of having a baby but struggle for years with infertility or seek other unconventional ways to build a family. In an era of new options in reproductive medicine, many couples are using a third person’s egg, sperm, or embryo to conceive. Having a child with another person’s genetics is complex. Couples have concerns about how donor conception will affect their future family life, especially their child. Confusion and fear can leave parents feeling unequipped on this path to parenthood. Shame and unresolved grief about infertility create silence around a controversial topic that needs a voice. Secrets can hurt a family. A fertility counselor addresses your urgent questions: •Why should we tell our child we’re not genetically related?
•How do we tell our child about donor conception? And when is the best time?
•What if my child is upset?
•What if I don’t feel like the real parent?
•Will others treat our family differently?
•Should we keep the donor a secret?

You can learn to overcome fears that make you want to keep a secret—yet maintain your family’s privacy. These book offers education and awareness so parents can guide their donor-conceived children through various stages of development with age-appropriate conversations.
 
 
1. The Pea that was Me- Kimberly Kluger-Bell
Struggling with how to tell your child about their egg donor? This acclaimed children's picture book (3-5 years old) makes it incredibly easy to start talking with your child about the special way they came into the world.
 
2. You were made for me – Sheri Sturniolo
A children's book that takes a look into the unique and wonderful ways some families are made, and the journey of love that brings them together.
 
3. Happy Together – Julie Marie
A story told through clear language and cheerful illustrations, readers will join Mommy and Daddy bear on the journey to fulfill their greatest wish of becoming parents. With help from a doctor, an egg from a special lady called a donor and Daddy’s seed.
 
4. A tiny itsy bitsy gift of life - Carmen Martinez-Jover
This touching story of how a happy couple of rabbits have their own baby by means of egg donation. Using rabbits in this story enables children to easily understand their conception in a simple and loving way.

5. Wish - Matthew Cordell
As an elephant couple embarks on a life together, thoughts of children are far away-at first. But as the desire for a child grows, so do unexpected challenges. Parents want their babies to know how much they fought to bring them here into this world and how much they are really loved and wanted. This book will do it.

6. A very special lady – Nell Carswell, Pauline Haas
A delightfully simple story about ivf, an egg donor and the arrival of a baby girl. Fabulous pictures make it ideal for very young children and a simple story makes it perfect for older children to read. Without forgetting "the Very Special Lady" that made it possible.
 
7. How we become a family - Teresa Villegas
 
To build a family, first of all you need love. But how do you talk with your child about their in vitro origins? How do you tell your children they were conceived with the help of a donor? This is the perfect book to explain to your small children how they came into this world.
 
 

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Assisted Reproductive Technology for Gay Couples

8/30/2019

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*How do same sex couples have babies?
*Why do same sex couples use surrogate carriers?
*What do you mean there is different types of surrogate carriers?

Assisted Reproductive Technology (ART) is the term used to describe the technology used to achieve pregnancy using procedures such as fertility medication, in vitro fertilization and surrogacy. Thanks to ART more gay couples are able to have biological children.

Gay male couples often use assisted reproductive technology by using donated eggs from a family member, friend or an anonymous or open door egg donor. Sometimes gay couples choose to use the egg of a relative of one of the men and sperm from the other man so the child is biologically related to both of them. Sometimes the donated eggs are inseminated with one or both of the male’s sperm. Some gay couples choose to transfer two embryos into their surrogate, each one biologically related to each of the men. Some choose to transfer one egg from one biological father to a surrogate and then a few years later they do another surrogacy journey with an embryo that was created with the other father’s sperm. As always, everyone’s journey is different and based on what they prefer.

Lesbian couples often utilize ART through intrauterine insemination (IUI) with donated sperm to grow their family. They can get this sperm from a friend or family member or an anonymous donor. In vitro fertilization isn’t as common among lesbian couples but there are couples that make embryos out of one of the mom’s eggs, donated sperm and then transfer it into the uterus of the mom who did not use her egg. This is called reciprocal IVF. Some lesbian couples do use a surrogate. This is rare because the chances of a lesbian couple needing a surrogate are much lower since they have two people who might be able to carry their child.

Traditional surrogacy is also an option for gay couples. Traditional surrogacy is when a surrogate uses her own egg and they are fertilized through an intrauterine insemination procedure. Traditional surrogacy is less common and is not legal in most states. Golden State Surrogacy has yet to work with traditional surrogates. We specialize in Gestational Surrogacy where Instead, the embryo is created via in vitro fertilization (IVF), using the eggs and sperm of the Intended Parents or donors, and is then transferred to the surrogate with no biological relationship.

Not all states have LGBTQ friendly surrogacy laws. Even if gestational surrogacy is legal in a state it doesn’t mean the law will protect gay couples. Make sure to consult an ART attorney who is familiar with the surrogacy laws in the state where your baby will be born. Some states won’t recognize a gay parent who is not biologically related to the child as their parent.

It is our greatest joy to assist every person regardless of their background, sexuality, marital status or beliefs. Golden State Surrogacy will always be here to support each and everyone who wishes to create a family.
 

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5 Ways to Support Friends Who Are Using a Surrogate

8/20/2019

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When many first hear that a friend or couple they know is using a surrogate to have a carry their baby, you may be unsure what to say how to react. Should you console them about their fertility struggles or congratulate them for finding a way to build their family? Think about how you would like to be treated in the same situation, and do the same for your friends as you hope they would for you. Here are some simple ideas to help you and others speak to your friends or family members.

1. Be Aware of their Journey
The first thing you need to realize is that your friends or family member did not come to this decision lightly. If your friends are a same-sex couple, their options for having a child that is biologically theirs are very limited. If they are a heterosexual couple, they have probably struggled for months or evenyears with fertility issues before reaching this point. In some cases, a disease or condition may have left one of them infertile. Maybe you were not aware, but sometimes telling close friends or family members is much harder then one would think.
If you have been friends for a while, you have probably heard about their plans or struggles before the announcement. However, some couples are very private and may say nothing about their attempts to have a child. Even if you are surprised, restrain yourself and simply congratulate them. The promise of your continued love and support will make a difference while they go through this journey in hopes to become parents.

2. Understand the Emotions
Choosing surrogacy is a positive thing, but you, close friends, and even family members may still be wrestling through some difficult emotions. For a woman, coming to terms with the fact that she cannot bear children is especially hard. Men who are infertile often feel that they have failed if they cannot produce a child.1 in 8 couples have issues conceiving naturally and as a last resort to a biological child, they then turn to surrogacy.
Whatever the situation may be, you can be supportive while letting your friends know that their emotions are real and valid. Let them know, verbally or otherwise, that they don’t have to hide their emotions behind a smile when they’re with you about the possibility of becoming first time parents. It’s okay for them to have mixed feelings of loss and joy; and as their friend, you can be there to comfort them or rejoice with them, whether they are concerned by the costs or thrilled about a productive meeting with their surrogate mother who is selfless helping them build their family.

3. Welcome the Surrogate
Your friends or family member may have chosen someone they know as their surrogate, or they may have used an agency to find a surrogate. Sometimes people even consider finding their surrogate independently. Either way, the surrogate will be in the picture for at least twelve to fifteen months and probably longer if they build that lifelong friendship. If you get to meet the surrogate, treat her as a new friend. She is, after all, rather like the fairy godmother in the situation—making a very special dream come true for your friends or family member. Really, being a surrogate carrier is a life changing choice, and for your friend or family member to meet someone kind enough to help them… well there is not enough words to thank them.

4. Throw a Shower
Just because your friend isn’t actually pregnant herself doesn’t mean that you should skip the shower and joys of becoming new parents. Definitely throw the couple a baby shower so that everyone can congratulate the intended parents. First, ask your friends what kind of baby shower they would like. Do they want the surrogate to be present? If so, a couple of thoughtful gifts for the surrogate might be in order— perhaps a gift certificate for a spa after all she is likely tired being in her third trimester. Small gestures mean so much not only to the Intended Parents but to the surrogate as well for being recognized that she too is creating life for a complete stranger! Keep the focus on the Intended Parents as this baby shower is for them! Spread the love, make them feel special, and celebrate before their newborn arrives.

5. Offer to Help
Once the baby arrives, your friends will be plunged into the whirlwind of parenthood. They will be running on very little sleep, and they’ll be weary from attending to the never-ending needs of a newborn. As excited the new parents are, they still need some help! After all they are most likely first time parents! Offer to bring warm meals, coffee or tea, or just a helping hand weather that be some light cleaning, prepping bottles, or simply holding their sweet newborn so they can rest their eyes or get in a quick shower.  Your friends or family members will always remember the kindness that you show to them and their long-awaited baby. Always be kind as life is a roller coaster and we are just here to enjoy the ride together.






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